How to Choose Your Vibe – How to Choose Your Lube – Bondage Rules – All About Anal - How to Care for Your Toy - The Phthalate-Free Story

How to Choose Your Vibe

Probably the best way to address this issue is to break it up into a few key questions

  1. What do I Like?  If you’re after something geared more towards clitoral stimulation, good options include items like the Layaspot or Busy Bee.  If a penetrative vibe is what you’re looking for, vibes like the Goddess or Echo may be more up your alley.  G-spot fans will enjoy vibes like the Rock-Chick, and the Stubby G-Swirl.  Then for those wanting more than one erogenous zone stimulated at the same time, you could be after a dual vibrator like the E-Rabbit or Delight.  Finding the right accessory may seem daunting, but rest assured it’s never been so fun!
  2. The Power Question?  Whether it’s battery powered or electric, both have their benefits.  With electric models like the Hitachi Magic Wand, strong vibrations and longevity are never an issue.  With a steady power supply your motor won’t get stressed like it does with fading batteries.  Battery operated vibes do open up a lot of options like speed variation, cordless, numerous styles, and portability.  If you like these features, toys like the Layaspot or Petite might satiate your needs.
  3. The Noise Question?  If roommates or little ones are a concern of yours, then the noise factor is something you’ll want to take into consideration.  Some vibes that speak to this concern are the G1 Dolphin and the Water Dancer.  Throughout the site you’ll find information on sound levels under the highlights section.
  4. What’s it made of?  This is probably one the most important questions to ask yourself when you’re toy shopping since there are no regulations on what toys can be made of, and considering where it’s going you should definitely want to know about this.  Trinity Romance Shop specializes in non-toxic toys.  That means we don’t carry products made of Jelly (which contain phthalates), latex (which harbours bacteria), or cyberskin (another mystery material).  Materials we do carry are Silicone, Food-Grade Vinyl, Plastic, and Elastomer.
  5. Solo or Couple-Play?  Toys are great alone, or can be used with a partner as well, and in a variety of circumstances.  Whether it’s in the pre-game warm-up, or you need a relief pitcher in the 7th inning, accessorizing is a great way to make sure both parties are satisfied.  That said some toys have better crossover potential than others.  Clitoral stimulators (see the Jolie), cock rings (see the Catalina), and plugs (see the Pandora) make great “couple-friendly” toys due to their size and adaptability. 

How to Choose Your Lube

Lubes exist to reduce friction and increase pleasure.  They can be used during intercourse, masturbation, and with sex toys.  It’s also a good idea to use with condoms to reduce the risk of breakage, and with any sort of anal play.  Having fun with lube can give touch and pressure completely new parameters.

Water Based Lubes- These make up the majority of lubes on the market.  The body flushes them out easily.  They won’t stain your sheets or harm your toys.  They do however dry up, and some leave a sticky residue.  Both Hathor and Slippery Stuff leave no stick behind.

Silicone Based Lubes- The nice thing with silicone lubes is that they stay slippery for an extremely long time, and can even be used in water.  They’re also said to be hypoallergenic because the skin does not absorb it.  These lubes can’t be used with silicone toys, and lower-grade brands may stain your sheets, or damage latex.  We choose to carry Eros due its high quality.

A Bit About Bondage

It is worth noting that bondage has sexual appeal to persons of both sexes and all sexual orientations, and involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure.  With it though comes a certain degree of responsibility, so we’ve given you a few basic rules to play by.  Remember - have fun, but play safe.

The Do’s & Don’ts

  1. Always play with the full informed consent of your partner.
  2. Create a “Safe word” (no and yes can be easily confused).
  3. Never leave anyone bound and alone.
  4. Don't tie things around someone’s neck.
  5. Always play with paramedic scissors or rescue knife within reach.
  6. Always check you handcuff or lock keys beforehand.
  7. Always insure a bound person has adequate circulation.
  8. Ask about medical issues before playing.
  9. Do not play while under the influence.
  10. If pregnant, check with your doctor before engaging in bondage activity
  11. When removing someone from bondage, allow them to move their own limbs.
  12. Always play within your own skill base and comfort level.
  13. Always be careful and take necessary safety precautions when engaging in bondage activity.

All About Anal

The anus contains a very high concentration of nerve endings.  It is the gateway to the P-spot in men, and can also bring about powerful orgasms in women.  That said, it does command both care and consideration to safely enjoy this rewarding erogenous zone.

  1. Relax- Get comfortable with the area around and inside of your anus.  Focus on your breath, and listen to your body.  If you’re uncomfortable, try adjusting your position.  If it’s painful, stop.  Pain receptors exist for a reason.
  2. Lubricate- One cardinal rule is “when you think you have enough lube, use more”.  Since the anus doesn’t lubricate itself, this is essential to prevent any sort of tearing or scratching, which is where a bacterial infection can occur.
  3. Toys- Trinity Romance Shop only carries silicone anal toys, namely because you can be very hygienic with their care.  For example you can boil them to share between users, and they won’t soak up lubes like porous toys.  When using toys always make sure they have a flared base to prevent them from getting lost.  Some good examples of flared-base toys are the Element and Flexi-Felix.
  4. Cleanliness- Be sure to never go back and forth from anus to vagina.  This practice can easily cause bacterial infections.  If you’re using ungloved fingers or toys be sure to clean them extremely well before any kind of vaginal touching or penetration. 

How to Care for Your Toy

  1. Remove batteries between uses. This reduces the risk of battery leakage inside the toy, and the chance for it to turn on accidentally and draining the battery.
  2. Vibrators can be cleaned with a toy cleaner, or antibacterial soap and water. Ensure that you rinse it properly afterward to clean any soapy residue off of the toy, and avoid water directly contacting the motor.
  3. The use of lubricants can greatly enhance the pleasure of the toy
  4. Toys with cords should be inspected after use, and should be treated with care.

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Tweezer Clamps: The tweezer clamp allows you to gently ease into nipple play by starting with the clamp quite wide. When the situation calls for a little more tension, simply slide the collar on the clamp ever so slightly up the shaft.

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