Celebrate The Small Things

Intimacy can take many forms, from a look, to a touch, to a caress, to mind shuddering orgasms. It's the small stuff however that is the start of it all. Who doesn't remember that feeling of butterflies when you nervously held that special someone's hand on the school bus for the first time? You know the feeling; that flush of anticipation when your heart beat a little faster, your eyes got a little bigger and you weren't sure quite what to say. It's those feelings exactly that initiate the sexual cycle, and the more familiar you become with them it seems the easier it is to take them lightly. This is especially true of men who by nature move through the arousal stage at a greater speed. As practice take the time to focus on these smaller things and really appreciate your partner. You may feel a little vulnerable, even a little uncomfortable but really try to embrace that emotion, and you may surprise yourself at how much more you open up as a person, a lover, and a friend.